“I care for you, I care about you, and I know you in ways no one else does; I am your doctor. ”
The physician patient relationship is unique, sensitive, and vitally important. Imagine for a moment, that you are the physician who made the opening statement, and that the patient to whom you spoke those words has suddenly, unexpectedly, died.
You grieve, and you have a right to. That patient and those who love him matter to you.
Now imagine that the death is attributable, at least in part, to a medical error that you made. How do you deal with the stress of that knowledge?
Most physicians want to do what you or I would want to do if we made an unintentional error that harmed someone. We’d want to offer a sincere, heartfelt apology, and tell those left behind that we are sorry. We’d want to offer some explanation as to how such a devasting event could have happened, and share what we were doing to make sure it never happened again.
Now imagine that you’re told that option is not available to you. You are instructed by lawyers, insurance company representatives, and risk managers, not to speak about the event, not speak to any of the patient’s family members, not to return their phone calls, and not to attend the patent’s funeral.
Imagine how that would feel.
Too many physicians and grieving family members don’t have to imagine; they know.
Slowly, that tide is turning. Healthcare is discovering that a more humanistic approach to medical errors not only helps the people directly affected, but helps protect organizations as well. That is welcome news for both patients and caregivers.
The New York Times article When Doctors Admit Their Mistakes delves further into this complex issue.
Despite the best efforts of health care professionals, bad things can happen in hospitals. Up until more recently, when errors occurred, the scenario that played out was always the same. Clinicians, devastated but fearful of litigation, would shut down. Patients and their families, grieving but desperate to make sense of the event, would find that their doctors and nurses were no longer responsive or available. Eventually, the most important relationship in health care, that between patient and doctor, would cede to the most adversarial one, that between plaintiff and defendant.
Read When Doctors Admit Their Mistakes
Related: Talking to Patients After Medical Mistakes